“If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?” - RuPaul - - - - - - - - - - - “if by a "Liberal" they mean someone who looks ahead and not behind, someone who welcomes new ideas without rigid reactions, someone who cares about the welfare of the people -- their health, their housing, their schools, their jobs, their civil rights, and their civil liberties -- someone who believes we can break through the stalemate and suspicions that grip us in our policies abroad, if that is what they mean by a "Liberal," then I'm proud to say I'm a "Liberal.” - John F. Kennedy - - - - - - - - - - - - “Imagine finding someone you love more than anything in the world, who you would risk your life for but couldn’t marry. And you couldn’t have that special day the way your friends do – you know, wear the ring on your finger and have it mean the same thing as everybody else. Just put yourself in that person’s shoes. It makes me feel sick to my stomach …. When I shared a picture of my tattoo on my Twitter page and said, ‘ALL LOVE is equal,’ a lot of people mocked me – they said, ‘What happened to you? You used to be a Christian girl!’ And I said, ‘Well, if you were a true Christian, you would have your facts straight. Christianity is about love.’ The debate resulted in a lot of threats and hate mail to people who agreed and disagreed with me. At one point I had to say, ‘Dude, everyone lay off.’ Can’t people have friendly debates about sensitive topics without it turning into unnecessary threats?” - Pop star Miley Cyrus on her marriage equality tattoo - - - - - - - - - - -
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Tuesday, May 24, 2011

True Texans With Big Hearts Do Exist... (Video)

I'm honestly going to say this video brought me to tears.  As you all know by now, my partner and I are from Texas - the reddest of the Red States, one of the most conservative states in our union.  This is a state which has the strictest laws against gays in this country, a state where any business can refuse service to my partner and I.  But if ever a statement were right, this is the right time to say it; The majority of Texans DO have a big heart.

On Friday, May 20th, ABC Primetime’s “What Would You Do?” covered an important, and controversial topic in the small, conservative Texas town of Farmer's Branch. The clip below took place inside Norma's Cafe.  The purpose of the segment was to see what customers would do if a waitress started to vocalize her feelings towards a gay couple raising children.  The waitress, who's an actress, begins to belittle and berate the gay couple (who are also actresses) for being gay, and raising children. What comes next, is what's surprising.  Keep in mind, this town is home to a 4 year Bible College - Dallas Christian College.


Yes, the people who make our state laws, and the people who vote for them reflect the same beliefs the waitress portrayed in this video - hateful, judgemental, and vengeful people.  Do these type of people reside in our families? Yes, they do.  Do we work with them? Yes, we do.  Do we love them? Yes, we do.  But will we grow to be like them? No, we wont!

3 comments:

Ryan said...

I knew you'd love this video, my love. It made me cry bunches too. A poll release last week showed that the majority of Americans, 53%, are actually in favor of gay marriage for the very first time. When people see a couple like us that has been together for 6 plus years (I can officially say that now :) ) and are as happy as we are it's hard to say that we don't deserve to be committed to each other for life under the law and receive all the rights that come with it too. The only thing better for people to see aside from how perfect we are for each other is how imperfect we can sometimes be. We may have our quirks and argue and forget things and fight at times but it just shows that our relationship is no different from anyone else's. We're all human beings that aren't perfect, but are perfect for each other in a marriage of love, trust, honesty and commitment. The more people that see that we're everywhere being committed, raising children, working with them, fighting in war beside them, sharing political and religious beliefs with them and just being normal human beings without the world and society come crashing down is when more people start seeing how unfair, unjust, and unequal the law is for all of us GLBT's. This video made me cry and gave me hope. We're not equal yet, but we're moving in the right direction. One day we will be and both my love and I will live to see that wonderful and most glorious day.

Ryan said...

I love him so much. I can't wait to walk down the aisle with you baby. Love you bunches. :)

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