“If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?” - RuPaul - - - - - - - - - - - “if by a "Liberal" they mean someone who looks ahead and not behind, someone who welcomes new ideas without rigid reactions, someone who cares about the welfare of the people -- their health, their housing, their schools, their jobs, their civil rights, and their civil liberties -- someone who believes we can break through the stalemate and suspicions that grip us in our policies abroad, if that is what they mean by a "Liberal," then I'm proud to say I'm a "Liberal.” - John F. Kennedy - - - - - - - - - - - - “Imagine finding someone you love more than anything in the world, who you would risk your life for but couldn’t marry. And you couldn’t have that special day the way your friends do – you know, wear the ring on your finger and have it mean the same thing as everybody else. Just put yourself in that person’s shoes. It makes me feel sick to my stomach …. When I shared a picture of my tattoo on my Twitter page and said, ‘ALL LOVE is equal,’ a lot of people mocked me – they said, ‘What happened to you? You used to be a Christian girl!’ And I said, ‘Well, if you were a true Christian, you would have your facts straight. Christianity is about love.’ The debate resulted in a lot of threats and hate mail to people who agreed and disagreed with me. At one point I had to say, ‘Dude, everyone lay off.’ Can’t people have friendly debates about sensitive topics without it turning into unnecessary threats?” - Pop star Miley Cyrus on her marriage equality tattoo - - - - - - - - - - -
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Sunday, November 27, 2011

A Love Story: It's Time

You think our country is the only one in the world demanding full equality?  No.  There are countries like Australia, Colombia, New Zealand, Nepal, and Europe that are currently debating marriage equality in their countries.

I want to be able to marry my partner, Ryan some day, and regardless of the laws in the state of Texas and our country, we will.  It isn't just about a paper stating we are married, we could care less about that.  It's about treating us the same as you would a straight couple.  The argument of faithfulness and family values can no longer be justified when you have people marrying, divorcing, committing adultery at every corner, and yet still say that this is the way it should be.  That's hypocrisy at it's core!  

We need the benefits that are afforded to heterosexuals applied to us, we need them so that I don't have to worry about me dying and Ryan having a hard time getting my social security check, or getting the house he so rightly deserves.  Sure we can get lawyers and all that crap, but I shouldn't have to worry about all that.

Ryan showed me the video above last night, and it was absolutely beautiful.  It was made in conjunction with the Get Up! campaign in Australia.  Check it out, it is lovely.

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Abbie Herbstritt Snyder via Facebook said...

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Ryan said...

I cry every time I watch it because it reminds me so much of us, as I believe it does for every loving couple. I'm so glad that you liked it, my love. It is probably one of the best videos made for marriage equality among others that I've seen because it just doesn't show the good times but it also shows the bad that every relationship goes through. Only the truly strong and loving ones survive. I can't wait to ask for your hand in marriage one day, in front of everyone, and on the best day of my life, when I say "I do", I don't know how I'll be able to stop crying all my happy tears. I love you bunches, my love. Thank you once again for another amazing blog post.

Abbie Herbstritt Snyder via Facebook said...

First of all, I COMPLETLY agree. Second of all, Paul is hot!!! :) (the guy in the video)

I support you both so much. I have never met a couple that has more love for each other from the very beginning of your relationship...and it actually gets stronger every day. To hear Ryan speak to you is like hearing a 'brand new' couple in the first stages of dating and having the 'butterflies' in his tummy just because he hears your voice.

If there is anything I can do so that the rights you deserve are granted to you both, please let me know. I love you both so much and wish that the ignorant people would open their eyes and see you both as a couple who does 'almost (he he)' everything the same as those that enforce the old ways. It is almost 2012 and I am raising a child in a biggot filled 'free' country. God help me for my son's future.

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Ryan Lopez via Facebook said...

Thank u so much Abbie. We love u too and appreciate your kinds words. If only everyone else did think the same way, it would certainly be a much easier world for Peter and I and other GLBT people to live in. In time it will be better because the more that people not only see openly gay people but openly gay couples that have been together for years, love eachother dearly but are not given the same rights as others, the more people will realize that it makes no sense to deny us equality when the only difference is what you mentioned ( he he) :) Love u girl and hopefully we'll get to see u soon. Once again thanks.

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